How to Train Children Self-Confidence?

How to Train Children Self-Confidence — A child often looks shy when meeting strangers or new people they met. It can also occur because the children lack of self-confidence. Children’s self confidence is also often inhibits their other social activities. How do I train the kids believe in themselves?

Confidence in a person affected by how the parents care. The confidence that trained since the development of the child, will give birth to a certain person on them, competent, and appreciate them in a healthy and positive.

For child self-confidence, self respect, parents need to apply this parenting:

* Praise is the appropriate
Compliments are good for children, but do not overdo it. Do not repeat the praise on children who are themselves boast talents. Like “You’re the smartest kids in school” or “You are pebasket terandal”. Do not give compliments that make it unencumbered to always be the greatest.

“Give praise to the business in achieving success, not on the talent they has,” said Shari Young Kuchenbecker, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology at Chapman University in Orange, California.

According to research at Columbia University, children feel more comfortable and able to face challenges when they get praise for his efforts. Like the saying, “You work hard” or “Great, you can complete the task well.” The words of motivation more spotting for children rather than a compliment like “Dad proud of you son”

* Do not give the label on the child
Do not ever say, “You boy!” when viewing the behavior of “naughty” her. The label focuses on gender stereotypes is just as though the boys did not behave well or can not control his behavior.

Parents need to be careful with any words. “The message was recorded greeting children from their parents played a big role in how kids respect them,” said Paul W. Schenk, PsyD, clinical psychologist from Tucker, Georgia.

“When kids hear the words of the attack itself, it will have a negative impact on self-esteem. Children will begin to believe that her parents saying it’s true, that boys are troublemakers,” he explained.

Children’s self confidence must be instilled early on. As parents, we should be able to guide and train the child’s confidence so they can socialize well. From now on, you can start to train your kids to build their self confidence, it’s never too late.